Subject	"When Momma's not happy, NOBODY's happy." >>>
Posted by	Mike (Austin) on May 07, 2004 at 9:58 AM
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In Reply To	let me explain marriage for you in one sentence posted by TARGETZ on May 07, 2004 at 09:29 AM
Message	TargetZ is spot-on. Actually, the fact is, in a solid relationship, it takes two "yes's" and one "no" when it comes to important decisions. This does not mean that the "no" is used as a tool to manipulate or spite, but that the "no" is founded on legitimate concerns, and is honored out of respect for the relationship, not disregarded due to manly self-interest. This perspective has worked for my wife and I for almost 10 years and running, and I manage to have my toys while still respecting her wishes and, in many cases, curbing my wants and needs. She is in the same position. Some of y'all think it is tough with the wife? Try having another female in the picture - the daughter. There's a new boss in town, and she's 5 months old and does not take no for an answer.
Follow Ups	Possible opportunity to buy my Z back >>>> - aspendog 08:58:40 05/07/04 well... - dpjax 09:01:59 05/07/04 $$$ for a new showroom, basically business - aspendog 09:05:03 05/07/04 I dont get this part: but the wife is not on board - ZEngineer 09:04:38 05/07/04 I guess you would need to be Happily married to understand (n/m) - aspendog 09:06:04 05/07/04 No doubt. You realize quickly when you get married >> - Greg (Dallas) 09:39:51 05/07/04 I agree..I'm just not ready for that sacrefice yet - ZEngineer 09:44:12 05/07/04 agreed. Good for you. (n/m) - Greg (Dallas) 09:51:51 05/07/04 It is not a sacrifice if it is done right. (n/m) - Guapo 09:54:59 05/07/04 You must put something down to pick something else up. (n/m) - Kenny 10:16:51 05/07/04 I disagree ... sacrificing something means giving up - Guapo 10:28:13 05/07/04 agreed... - Fuzznutz 10:58:38 05/07/04 No doubt. Good that you have that self-insight. - PA_Z 09:56:42 05/07/04 she's not the problem, I am - ZEngineer 09:59:07 05/07/04 Gotcha. (n/m) - PA_Z 10:32:59 05/07/04 Maybe she loves you !! - PLEAZURE in CA (SD) 17:41:10 05/07/04 Exactly. When you realize that you consider her - slowjohn 10:07:56 05/07/04 but John, they are NEVER happy! ;) (n/m) - ZEngineer 10:10:13 05/07/04 hmmm - aliaZ 10:18:03 05/07/04 100% correct sir... Been down that road. (n/m) - BlitZ95TT (AMZ Performance) 10:51:43 05/07/04 I guess I am just real lucky. It is the same with ones - slowjohn 12:25:02 05/07/04 I agree, unfortunately I have some sort of weird trigger - ZEngineer 09:41:21 05/07/04 You should stay single with that attitude. (n/m) - larryb 09:12:38 05/07/04 her happiness is tied to her involvement... - dpjax 09:18:45 05/07/04 That's what prenups are for. - Marshall 15:22:13 05/07/04 let me explain marriage for you in one sentence - TARGETZ 09:29:50 05/07/04 Preach on brutha. (n/m) - Greg (Dallas) 09:40:53 05/07/04 why allow someone else's mood swings cripple your life? (n/m) - ZEngineer 09:47:56 05/07/04 That's not it George. - Kenny 10:15:34 05/07/04 bastard! (n/m) - ZEngineer 10:18:33 05/07/04 "When Momma's not happy, NOBODY's happy." >>> - Mike (Austin) 09:58:10 05/07/04 omg, you guys are so whooped! - ZEngineer 10:06:04 05/07/04 Picture = 1000 words... - BigTDogg (MA) 11:40:01 05/07/04 that is great about the daughter, I have 2 boys >>> - aspendog 10:17:42 05/07/04 Happy wife... Happy life :) (n/m) - Steve-O 12:48:59 05/07/04 LOL, you'll never be married. (n/m) - Spee 17:07:35 05/07/04 Women making decisons for you!!....women only need to know - TWINTURBONICK 18:55:59 05/07/04 i say buy her back its a great z (n/m) - JDMz32smity 09:05:08 05/07/04 Explain to the wife the amount of time and money you put - ImTheDevil 09:05:41 05/07/04 See that's part of the problem, if she knew what was - aspendog 09:06:58 05/07/04 you can buy her back complete and cheaper - JDMz32smity 09:10:02 05/07/04 wong! Women dont understand that logic. - ZEngineer 09:08:10 05/07/04 Yeah...that approach rarely works - craZylegZ 09:15:13 05/07/04 I'm guessing you're single... ;-) (n/m) - PA_Z 09:30:54 05/07/04 no man, it's not like that... - ZEngineer 09:46:07 05/07/04 I'm just rippin' on ya. I'm fortunate that the wife likes - PA_Z 09:54:10 05/07/04 Re: no man, it's not like that... - spicyZ 13:26:02 05/07/04 Women are simple? You crack me up! (n/m) - Mike (Austin) 10:04:39 05/07/04 I think they are simple to understand honestly. - Kenny 11:10:41 05/07/04 You can alway use your other hand :) - ImTheDevil 11:35:02 05/07/04 You rang? (n/m) - shirow 14:56:17 05/07/04 Does she even know you're lookin'? Try the "invetstment" - danz300 09:55:31 05/07/04 Your Z was my background until I got the Koeinsegg :P - BigTDogg (MA) 10:12:03 05/07/04 that was so beautiful *tear* - ZEngineer 10:16:03 05/07/04 Just trying to give a third person perspective... - BigTDogg (MA) 10:30:17 05/07/04 Marriage is a partnership - Technomancer 11:11:30 05/07/04 good advice (n/m) - SuparexTT 15:54:47 05/07/04 If you decide to buy it back, I don't think you should pay - AztecTT 12:20:16 05/07/04 Your Z was one of a kind...you are lucky to have the - TheTwinZ (Peru) 12:37:47 05/07/04 Whats in it for her? Answer that and life is good. (n/m) - zzman (nashville) 12:57:52 05/07/04 dude, if your wife cares for you then she will understand>> - Plan Z 14:32:41 05/07/04 agreed. It's a 2 way street (n/m) - aliaZ 15:26:03 05/07/04 Wow, sounds like the wife doesn't really know you? - ZBlacktt 14:35:16 05/07/04 I like your perspective, but my wife does not really - aspendog 14:46:19 05/07/04 I hear you there, I have kids too. - ZBlacktt 15:14:47 05/07/04 Sorry ( phone rang ), lol. - ZBlacktt 15:48:32 05/07/04 thanks for the kind words. (n/m) - aspendog 16:57:31 05/07/04 Your car or one like it has been on ebay before... - SuparexTT 15:54:07 05/07/04 I sold my 92TT about 5 years ago when my wife and I were - 94Z32XTT 02:15:04 05/08/04
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